In posing the question, as to whether you are vulnerable to infidelity, the short answer is “yes!“. In many ways, everyone is a potential infidel.
You may be vulnerable in ways you never considered. All it takes is for you to be vulnerable and when enough high risk variables happen, it’s a slippery slope to an affair.
No one is immune from an affair. The longer and more detailed answer also provides some insights. There are some common attributes that increase the susceptibility of one toward having an affair.
These items include:
1. Lack of self-confidence
2. Has unmet emotional needs.
3. Has a desire or need to be in control.
4. Has been disappointed with intimate relationships.
5. Feels hopeless.
6. Is tired (physically, emotionally or spiritually)
7. Is in pain (physically, emotionally or spiritually)
8. Lives an ‘overextended’, overcommitted or stretched lifestyle.
9. Has an addictive personality, that always needs or craves stimulation.
10. Often fantasizes about affairs.
These are 10 of the qualities which make you more vulnerable to affairs. There are more factors, yet these ten communicate some of the more common qualities.
If your relationship or life is filled with many of these items, you may be in greater danger than you realize. You may be in a high risk situation and don’t realize it.
These same items are common to affair relapse as well. If you need help in moving past affair relapse, check out the video “Overcoming Affair Relapse”.
Best Regards,
Jeff
