One of the misnomers in society is “gentleman’s clubs”. Such establishments are not oriented toward traditional gentlemen (one having manners, morals and good character) by any means. The atmosphere is often filled with activity which masks the loneliness that many patrons are seeking to overcome.
The environment is one that encourages gratification of sensual desires. The temptations present are often beyond what many men and some women can resist. The whole environment is designed to arouse and stimulate. Even the ‘fancier’ clubs, with the brass fixtures make it look like a reputable place, yet the damage done to marriages in such places is often staggering. The stimulation encourages people to be aroused by sexuality rather than by enjoying their spouse’s company. Such clubs often damage the spirit of the marriage, even when people are not aware of what they have done.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey D. Murrah
