One of the problems of working in an environment that is results oriented is that spreads into other areas. People begin to evaluate their manhood/womanhood in terms of the bottom line. Since their sexuality is tied in with their personhood, a common problem is to begin keeping score of their progress in terms of sexual conquests. They sincerely believe that the number of sexual conquests they have accumulated is related to their own evaluation of themselves as a person. Whether or not they are a success is determined by how many people they have had relations with.
When quantity replaces quality in terms of sexual relationships, the likelihood of affairs is increased. The risk of quantity replacing quality will increase with the amount of performance pressure a job involves. When you feel that quantity is replacing quality in your relationships, the time to take action is at that moment.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey D. Murrah
