A tough situation you face as a cheater is when the lover will not leave you alone. There are some lovers who want more commitment than you can give. When you tell them it is over and you want out, they do not let you out. These lovers often lay physical and or emotional traps for you. They have been known to do such things as call your spouse and create situations that do not actually exist. Such lovers are not an excuse, they really do exist. These lovers often engage in behaviors to ‘chain’ you to them.
The movie ‘fatal attraction’ may seem extreme, yet it is closer to real life when it comes to these lovers than you might think. The lovers that won’t leave you alone are more about taking hostages than they are about allowing you to be who you are and giving you your freedom. Such lovers carry with them the risk of stalking, which is a constant danger when you cheat. There are psycho-lovers out there. When you stray from your marriage, you are at risk of being found by such psycho-lovers.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
