Affairs can be thrilling, but they also come with risks that shouldn’t be ignored, especially when it comes to stalking. Whether you’re the lover, the cheater, or the betrayed, all parties involved are vulnerable to becoming stalkers or being stalked. Passion runs high in affairs, and that same passion can lead to obsession, which easily transforms into stalking behavior. Stalking can occur in both physical and emotional affairs, and it can even happen when someone desires to have an affair with you or you with them. It often starts innocently enough, with simple curiosity evolving into an insatiable appetite for knowledge.
The more you learn, the more you crave to know. Before you know it, obsession turns into some form of stalking behavior. Initially, the desire to know more gives you a sense of power in a situation where your control is limited. But the more you succumb to this urge, the more it takes control over you. At first, you can choose when to give in, but eventually, stalking makes you believe you’re in control when in reality, your thoughts and your life revolve around the object of your obsession.
It goes far beyond being a mere fan. If you have a history of control issues in your life, stalking has a way of triggering old fears, fantasies, and obsessions. It finds a way to infiltrate your mind and takes hold of you. Over time, the urge to stalk starts dictating your actions. This urge can grow to the point where it completely dominates your mind. Stalking can manifest in various ways, from physical stalking to hiring private investigators or even tracking someone’s online activities.
With the advancements in technology, you have access to their travel history, phone usage, and more. Being a victim of stalking is an absolute nightmare. Even when you’re not being actively stalked, the fear lingers, and you imagine the stalker lurking. Your own mind turns against you in those situations. Not only is stalking terrifying for you, but it also affects your family. As the stalking continues, it tends to expand into other areas, making the situation even more distressing.
Even after an affair ends, the risk of stalking remains. It can be about not wanting to let go or ensuring that it’s truly over. Either way, one party continues to struggle with finding closure. Stalking leaves its victims traumatized. When stalkers themselves have a history of trauma, the stalking becomes deeply ingrained, like a stubborn stain that won’t go away. In my video on “Overcoming Affair Trauma,” I provide valuable insights and strategies for healing from traumatic events, including being stalked. Affairs have a way of triggering past traumas, but instead of wrestling with fears and doubts, you can put the events behind you. Don’t miss out on the opportunity to download your copy of the video today and start your healing journey. Let’s keep it real and overcome these challenges together.
Keeping it Real,
Jeff
