There may be times when you wonder if people are brainwashed into having affairs. Your question is not off base.
The scary truth is that some cheaters have been programmed from early childhood to cheat. with some, the programming was haphazard and in other cases it is deliberate and planned out programming.That kind of deliberate and planned programming is brainwashing.
What the brainwashing shares in common is traumatizing events. The highly sophisticated types involves the use of trigger phrases or words that immediately put the person into a hypnotic state or ‘fog’.
When the programming is sophisticated, the cheater has their life highly compartmentalized, at times shutting off one side from the other side of their lives. You are not the one going crazy when you wonder if you are dealing with different people.
When the brainwashing is activated, the cheater seems like a whole other person to the point that they do not recall what they have done. The brainwashing activates programming in their brain imprinting.
If you’re a cheater who was programmed to cheat, you can break out of it. There is hope. You can leave that life behind. I will go more into how that can be achieved in a later post.
For the moment, you need to wake up to what is currently going on. Programmers use contradictory messages or trigger phrases which confuse your brain and ability to think clearly.
They count on your confusion as part of the programming. A favorite source of programming messages are drawn from the “Wizard of Oz” and its derivatives.
Such triggers are often phrases from the stories or movies used to put the victim into a hypnotic state. Once in the hypnotic state, you are easier to control and manipulate.
Becoming aware of ‘how’ you’re triggered begins the process of getting free. Programmers often use your fears and emotions against you, leaving you twisted like an emotional pretzel.
Early life trauma and its programming create roadblocks to affair recovery. They make recovery difficult, but not impossible.
Cheating that results from programming is not a voluntary choice. Since it’s not voluntary, it requires a different type of intervention.
Laying a guilt trip on programmed cheaters often pushes them deeper into a dark place than they were before. Most cheaters do what they do as part of a determined plan they consciously seek after.
In the case of programmed cheaters, the cheater is often involuntarily executing programming that has been embedded in their mind.
In the video, “Overcoming Affair Trauma”, I address issues associated with trauma and its connection with affairs. I invite you to check it out if this is an area you have questions about.
Best Regards,
Jeff
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Would you be referring to Tavistock and Monarch??? What more do you know ..How would an average family or parent decide to do this to a child….I have only heard of this being done to kids who have been abducted …or kidnapped….Don’t know that much about it….any more info???
Actually the question should be not “how’ but WHY would a parent do such a thing….various evil groups with motive has been involved historically….