Every year cheaters come up with new strategies. In the past, it was about knowing what smartphone apps that cheaters use.
Before that, it was about keystroke loggers on their computers and GPS trackers on their cars. Previously, the betrayed used trackers in keeping track of wayward spouses.
These days, the lovers are using trackers in keeping tabs on the cheater.
Apparently spouses learned about those strategies and apps. You found out what to look for.
These days, cheaters have moved beyond those old apps. There are new strategies in place.
The latest strategy consists of setting up burner phones, Tango accounts, email addresses and fake names for both the cheater and the lover. Besides Tango, there is Tinder, Happn, Blendr, Pure and iHookup.
Since most of these apps are free, you won’t find them on the credit card bill. With free apps on a burner phone, some of the old strategies for catching the cheater won’t work as effectively as they once did.
For what it’s worth, this is a one of the times of the year that is a frequent time for cheating. The most frequent time cheaters get caught is between 5pm and 7pm on a Wednesday.
Let’s suppose you catch the cheater. Now what do you do?
There’s plenty of lawyers that are more than willing to help the two of you split up. These days families are worth more in pieces than when kept together, and divorce lawyers know that.
If instead of dumping them, you want to restore your marriage or even restore yourself, there’s a place that can help.
The membership site, Restored Lifestyle has forums, videos and articles focused on giving you direction and helping you recover from what happened. Whether you are the cheater or the betrayed there are helps there for each of you.
It will take a while before the two of you can honestly hear each other out. It’s hard listening to what they were thinking in the events leading up to the affair.
It’s hard listening objectively to someone you love when they’ve done you wrong. It will take some additional help like the kind you can find on the website dealing with communication, trauma, and preventing affair relapse.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
