From the emails I receive I know that some of you wonder if your spouse ‘lost their mind‘ when they cheated. The sudden change in their thinking and behavior has you wondering what happened.
The affair was so out of character, it leaves you puzzled and searching for answers. The answer may be closer than you thought.
There are some explanations for sudden changes in behaviors. One is taking drugs, another is that of changes in hormones. Each of these bring sudden changes in behavior.
Today, I want to make you aware of one area of human behavior that may help you in your search for those sudden changes. When you combine drugs and hormones together, you’re faced with something you need to consider.
When those two combine, you’re automatically at higher risk of changes in behavior and thinking. One drug that has the impact of changing behavior in wives is contraceptives.
Contraceptives not only change moods, there are other effects as well.
Researchers have found that contraceptives filled with synthetic hormones change which men those women find attractive. Think about this, with this one drug, and the hormonal changes it brings, the kind of man your wife finds attractive changes.
The researchers found that the type of man that women on contraceptives were attracted to a different type of man than when they weren’t on contraceptives. They published their startling findings in Evolutionary Psychological Science.
Although you may have never considered contraceptives as a potential relationship changer, the potential is there. What changed your spouse could be right in your own medicine cabinet. So the answer to “What changed her?” is there in front of you.
Have you seen strange behavior and wondered “Are you on drugs?” When contraceptives are involved, the answer is “Yes”.
You can’t undo what happened, but there are things that the two of you can do in repairing your marriage relationship. Addressing critical areas will help the two of you repair the damage and make your marriage stronger.
The two of you can change how you do things, how you talk with each other and remove the dangers that made the affair possible.
In the ‘Affair Recovery Workshop’, I cover all the key areas needing attention in a special sequence that builds with each step the two of you take. Download the program today and start transforming your marriage into the relationship the two of you want.
Rather than feeling like everything is out of your control, you can take charge and reclaim your marriage.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
