After a long, tiring week, Susan believed she deserved a drink before heading home. She stopped at a place where most of her work associates gathered on Friday evenings.
After ordering and receiving her drink, she looked forward to some decompression. She made sure no one put anything in her drink and let down her guard a little. She’d heard all the stories about date rape drugs so she wasn’t taking any chances.
As she sat there, she started feeling uneasy, even downright creepy. It was like someone was touching her all over, but not in a good way. It was as if someone was staring at her in a way that made her uneasy.
She turned around in search of where the feeling came from, but in scanning the room, nothing seemed odd. Susan returned to her drink only to feel creeped out again by the sensation.
If you’ve ever had an experience like Susan, consider where the creepy sensation came from. Was it someone having lustful thoughts or perhaps there’s something to the idea of people shooting energy beams from their eyes.
Only this time, it wasn’t any kind of beneficial energy of saving mankind. It was more about being undressed and ogled by a stranger. At that moment she felt exposed.
The creepy sensation came from somewhere. If someone’s energy can do that, who knows what else it can do.
Episodes like this happen. This is one of the reasons I address the brain and its functioning in my Affair Recovery Workshop. The brain plays a powerful role in affairs and all the turmoil and energy that surround them.
Whether it’s about seducing others with your eyes, thoughts and language or if you’ve been the one seduced. The energy that surrounds affairs is a real thing that needs changing.
When the cheater’s brain is focused on the affair, it’s hard reaching them. It’s hard getting through all their mental noise.
Rest assured, there are ways of interrupting that focus. There are ways of bypassing their defenses.
Recovering from an affair by necessity requires changes in the thinking of the cheater. It also requires changes in how you reach the cheater.
In the Affair Recovery Workshop, I address ways of getting your spouse’s attention, without threats or nagging. I share with you ways of interrupting the unhealthy thinking patterns.
I encourage you to order and download the Workshop today. The tools give you a way of getting your spouse’s attention so that communication can be opened up again.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
