The ‘shelter-in-place’ lockdown strained many relationships. It put you in a position where you and your spouse were limited in terms of where to go and what to do.
It forced the two of you into having more time together than usual. For many, that additional time is stressful.
The usual distractions and diversions were no longer available. If your marriage was in good shape, the lockdown was not a major problem. If, on the other hand, you or your spouse were prone to stray, it presented some challenges.
Although I initially thought the lockdown would reduce infidelities, I’ve discovered my assumptions were wrong. Cheaters manage finding creative ways of continuing their cheating.
There is even a sex consultant in France, Maïa Mazaurette, who helps cheaters find ways of continuing their infidelities. She has been given the title of the “Quarantine Queen” for her activities.
She’s found ways of keeping the flames of infidelity and passion burning hot, even when social distancing is enforced.
The Quarantine Queen advises on ways of maintaining connection between cheaters and their lovers despite the quarantine. It shows me once again how creative and extreme cheaters can be. Not only can they be extreme, there are others coaching them on being sneaky.
Instead of changing their habits, she helps them find new ways of keeping up their old bad habits. Instead of actual meet-ups, she guides them in ways of using toys at a distance while engaging in fantasies.
She is just one example of how cheaters are finding creative ways around the challenges of their quarantine. It could be that your spouse has also find ways of keeping the flame of their affair going.
If your spouse is spending more mental energy finding ways to cheat than to love you, your marriage needs help. Even though they are with you, their mind and emotions are focused elsewhere.
If this is the situation you’re in, there’s also help available in dealing with your situation. Although I can’t be there in person, you can take steps now in prevent “Overcoming Affair Relapse” before the quarantine is finally over.
Just click and download the video so that you can know what’s going on and ways of changing the direction things are going.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
