Today, for a change of pace, I thought it would help if I shared with you the signs that your affair partner wants to end the affair. Someone asked for this. It occurred to me that it would be helpful, since some cheaters don’t take hints.
Come to think of it, there are times when lovers don’t take hints either. When people are caught up in their affair, they’re oblivious to hints and suggestions. In those cases, they need clear signals that it’s time to end the affair.
- When the spouse of one of the affair partners intervenes. This is a sure sign the affair is over.
- When there are no references to the future or the two of you being together. When they haven’t made room for you in their future or even talk about it, the relationship is going nowhere.
- When they act like they’re single when with you. When they act like they can’t be seen with you or associated with you, it’s a clear indication that the relationship is dysfunctional.
- When they quit making time for you. This signals that the relationship is no longer as important as it was. How people spend their time is a measure of their values. Not making time shows that the value they place on you is diminished.
- When your partner won’t introduce you to their family. Keeping rigid boundaries like this make it clear that the relationship is temporary and has a shelf life. It also makes it clear that the relationship is about play time and not real life.
This short list is a compilation of signs that the affair partners wants to end the affair. Some spouse’s either don’t know how to end their affair or can’t take hints. Either way, the affair needs to end.
If you are struggling with ending it, consider the video “Help for the Cheater: Starting the road to Recovery”. Just click, download and start making the necessary changes to your relationships.
There are times you need help ending things and accepting endings. The video guides you through the challenges of ending and the changes it brings.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
