Have you ever thought about that moment you considered the possibility your spouse cheated on you? Typically, there was something that changed or felt different.
Whatever it was, something didn’t feel right. At that moment, you mind took its first steps into a whole new world, even though other parts of you were kicking and screaming.
What you put off for a while as ‘unthinkable’ has shifted into the category of possibilities. With that shift, you began changing as well.
That moment changed your world. Another moment worth considering is what you did next. What did you do after realizing your spouse may be unfaithful?
The choices you made at that time shaped your marriage. It changed the direction things were going. They continue shaping the direction things are going.
When something changes the directions of your relationship like that, it’s worth reflection. Consider what you saw as your options at that moment.
As you adjusted to the changed world, your options changed as well. You may see options now that you didn’t see then.
If you don’t see more options now, it could be that you’re still struggling with that moment. It has a way of freezing time and your thinking as well.
If you’re stuck or even moving sluggishly after that moment, even if its’ months or years later, there’s hope. Affairs from the past need to be dealt with as well. They bring pain and heartache every bit as much as a current affair.
In the video “Getting Past the Affair Crisis” I address those initial choices and how they shape the next choices and options.
If you’re at a dead end now, it could be that you missed a turn or didn’t see it. The video can help you with moments like that.
The road to affair recovery isn’t easy, but it doesn’t have to be overly complicated either. There are things you can do.
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Keeping It Real,
Jeff
