One of the most dangerous weapons in the arsenal of modern nations is submarines. Submarines are dangerous due to their being able to hide under the sea.
The ability of submarines to travel undetected makes them one of those dreaded fears in the minds of political leaders. They know that these weapons can sneak up on you with little to no warning.
With improved technology submarines are capable of launching missiles, bombs and other devices. The only limit to their potential damage is the imagination of weapons manufacturers.
This increased lethality has caused many nations to view submarines as a very real threat. The fact that they are designed to attack without warning only heightens this feeling.
I find submarines and their sneaky threat akin to emotional affairs. The emotional affair threat lies hidden most of the time. They are unseen by most people.
The cheater downplays the danger of an emotional affair with comments like “we’re just friends” or “it’s nothing serious”. The reality is emotional affairs are serious threats to your marriage. Just like submarines, they can destroy your relationship with little to no warning.
The affair submarine is able to stay hidden due to the secretive nature of the conversations and meetings. The cheater makes sure there is no paper trail or digital footprint that could be discovered.
This secrecy allows the affair to continue undetected for months or even years.
Like a submarine hiding under the ocean surface, unseen from the air or surface, the danger of the emotional affair is something the cheater doesn’t see.
Although you see the danger, it’s hard convincing the cheater of the ever-growing danger. The cheater often doesn’t see the danger until it grows too large.
Their loyalty to their old friend blinds them to the danger of the ever growing emotional affair.
The cheater may say ” you’re being paranoid”, or jealous or over-reactive. You know something is wrong, and are unable to communicate it in a way they understand.
Their own denial is keeping them from seeing the danger of that old friendship.
In the video, “Let’s Talk: Hurting People and Healing Questions”, you’ll learn ways of bypassing the defenses and connecting with your spouse once again.
There are ways of getting your message to them warning them of the dangers you see. Taking action now is better than waiting until more damage is done.
Click, download and watch the video today. The danger of emotional affairs is real. Making better ways of connecting with your spouse is a way of reducing that threat.
Emotional affairs and submarine threats can be neutralized when you know how to neutralize them. I encourage you to obtain your copy so that you can handle the threat of emotional affairs.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
