Evil rarely shows its true colors. If you saw evil in its true colors, you’d steer clear of it. These days it’s unpopular to talk about evil in a negative way. Talking about what is evil is viewed as being unkind and unfair. This is part of the deception of evil and how it remains hidden by camouflage (except for the recent Grammy’s program).
If instead of seeing a lover who appreciates you, makes you feel good, and provides great sex, you saw an evil person bent on destroying your marriage, family and mental health, you’d make different choices. When you see it in terms of the destructive consequences rather than recreational fun it helps you see the truth. You didn’t recognize evil when you saw it. You have to see where relationships will eventually take you rather than how it makes you feel in the moment.
The same is true of bad choices. When a situation seems too good to be true, it’s often because evil is lurking in the shadows. If you saw it for what it was, you’d not get involved.
Instead of seeing the destructive results, you saw the gratification of your desires. As long as you look at desires instead of outcomes, you’re not going to see evil when it’s right in front of you. Evil hides its price tag and true nature.
An evil man or woman hides their true intentions. They sell you on their good intentions rather than letting you see the destruction they bring with them. They may not even realize the destruction that your relationship with them brings.
When you’re distracted by sex and affection, you don’t see the many ways they are poisoning you. When you’re enchanted, you only see the benefits of the affair rather than where it’s going to end up.
It’s easy to be fooled by evil, but it’s much harder to recognize and put a stop to it. Pay attention to the signs that something isn’t quite right and make sure you don’t get pulled into an affair with someone who has malicious intentions.
When you’re in a relationship where things have to be hidden, it should have warned you. When you have to keep your emails and time with each other from prying eyes, you’re dancing with evil. The person may be kind and even a member of the local church. That doesn’t make a relationship with them right. Evil is even more insidious when it hides behind a mask of decency or kindness.
The longer you dance with evil, the more control it has over you. I’m amazed at how many cheaters view their lovers in a favorable light. They see them as ‘good people’ instead of the ravenous evil monster that constantly wants more of their life, money, and soul.
When the evil relationship takes over, you protect it and nurture it. By that time, you’re so twisted around you don’t realize what you’re nurturing. Instead of taking care of your own marriage, you instead focus your affection on what will destroy your marriage.
Recovery from the affair requires you to recognize the evil when you see it. Making excuses for evil only allows it to continue growing. It’s time to shine a light on evil. Recognize it for what it is and put an end to it. Otherwise, you’ll be stuck in its grasp forever.
If you don’t see the affair as ‘evil’, you’re still caught up in its blinding spell. Be honest with yourself about the relationship and your own marriage. Evil is still evil, no matter how attractively it hides its true nature.
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Keeping It Real,
Jeff
