Lovers are a constant threat to marriages. About the time I thought things could get much worse, I learned otherwise. Although it may strike you weird to ask someone if they are a ‘certified’ sugar baby, those days are not far away.
Did you know that there are entrepreneurs out there actually teaching women ways of finding ‘sugar daddies?’ It’s bad enough when you have independent gold diggers, poachers and seducers looking for someone’s spouse to latch onto. Now, there’s the added dimension of specially trained lovers, steeped in the latest techniques in finding and milking sugar daddies.
The sugar daddy scene is also more than just a passing fad. It’s an organized business, with entrepreneurs promising to teach women the tricks of the trade. In addition to learning how to find and keep a sugar daddy, they are selling access to online forums where these ladies can converse about their experiences, and discuss various ‘dos’ and ‘donts’ of the trade.
Before you know it, there will be levels of certification and training levels for Sugar Babies.
My first encounter with a ‘Sugar Baby’ was working in a hospital. One of the attractive young nurses was a “Sugar Baby”. Rene had a pleasant personality and carried herself well and was fun to be around. Her smile had a way of lighting up any room. Although she was fun, Rene rebuffed any man asking her out for a date. Her actions puzzled me until I discovered that she did date men. Her ‘thing’ was finding married doctors.
She liked finding married men, since it was safe, required little commitment on her part and she was well taken care of. It was no wonder she had an air of confidence in having her needs taken care of.
This was my first experience with a Sugar Baby and their way of thinking. Sugar Babies look for a married man to care for them without commitment. Rene felt that she had a sweet deal. She had a stable relationship, went to fine restaurants, and enjoyed traveling with her lover. She had many of the plum benefits of a relationship without a restraining commitment.
All this was going on while the doctor’s wife was kept in the dark thinking her husband was ‘dedicated’ and put in many long hours to his noble profession. Little did she know that his nobility was actually servicing his ‘tart’ sugar baby nurse.
So, if you see some of the signs of a sugar baby in your spouse’s life, be aware that one could be lurking in the shadows. Be sure to find out all you can about them and take steps accordingly to protect your marriage. It is not too late to prevent the damage inflicted by these predators.
The thought that now there are women and men being trained in finding, and milking Sugar Daddies astounds me. They have an organized community with support groups and seminars. It is brain-numbing to think there are markets for anything these days including stealing the affection of your spouse.
This means that anytime you and your spouse have words, there are vulnerabilities. Anytime there are rough patches for the two of you means there are opportunities for Sugar Babies to exploit. It also means that if there has been an affair, you’ll want to make sure the affairs are dead before you bury them in the past.
The best way of making sure that an old affair or old flame poses no threat is by putting into place the material presented in the Affair Relapse video. You can close the door on potential Sugar Babies from sneaking in through the back way of an old affair.
Your marriage is at risk. When potential lovers are getting trained and certified in finding Sugar Daddies, isn’t it about time to protect your marriage?
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
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