Category: Recovery and Self-Care
“Can one person change a marriage?”
When you do a TED talk, it immediately gives you expert and celebrity status. At that point anytime you speak, you’re identified as having given a TED talk. Whether
Affair Partners are losers
When a reader inquired about how affair partners are losers, it grabbed my attention. The more I considered their point, the more I realized they were onto something. Let’s
Changing tattoos with Affairs
Although I’m not enough fan of tattoos to get one, I find their artistry fascinating. The first one I recall seeing was on my Great Uncle. The tattoo was
Advice worth paying for
On occasion, I receive snarky email responses. A recent one was “This is ridiculous to pay for advice. I am sorry but if you are that desperate to make money
Losing Trust in yourself
The damage an affair does to trust is immense. During the process of recovering from an affair, long after forgiveness has been dealt with, intimacy resumed and communication improved,
The Conspiracy of Silence
One of the common tactics of the police shows on television is threatening people who knew about a crime with conspiracy, even when they were not part of the
Smelling of cheap perfume
Hearing references to ‘cheap perfume’ leads me to recall the Journey song from my youth “Don’t Stop Believin” and the country song “Cheap perfume and candlelight”. Although these songs
Health Crisis Affairs
Lately one of the common factors I hear about with some affairs is hospital and health crises. This happens when your attention is distracted by the hospital or health
Recognizing Evil when you see it
Evil rarely shows its true colors. If you saw evil in its true colors, you’d steer clear of it. If instead of seeing a lover who appreciates you, makes
Stopping the pain of Infidelity
There are times when I can tell one of my migraines is coming on. At those times, I know that putting off taking action on the approaching pain is
