Category: Recovery and Self-Care
Removing Obstacles in your relationship
Although I’ve mentioned that the year is coming to a close once before, I thought I would do so again. The reason for doing so is that the start
Hearing the words you want to hear
One of the important lessons I’ve learned in working with affairs is the importance of looking at what people do rather than listening to what they say. When you
Your body is telling you something
One of the first paid gigs I had as a young therapist was working in a biofeedback lab. Among the many lessons I learned was the importance of listening
The risk of affairs in a small town
Today, I’ll be answering a question that came in from a reader. They wanted to know whether or not office affairs happen in small towns. The answer is an
Coerced into Swinging
Twelve years ago I wrote a post entitled “The Dark Side of Swinging“. The popularity of that post has astounded me both in terms of the traffic to it
Why he’s ignoring your letters
About the time I think that I’ve covered all the bases when it comes to affairs, I’m reminded that some readers need a review of the basics. One of
Cell Phone creep and your Marriage
Have you considered the possibility that one of you is having an affair with your phone or social media? Your telephone and its social media apps may be convenient, yet
Affairs and Real-Life Messes
The first weekend of each month brings a radical change to the small town where I live in the Texas hill country. That first weekend is market day. People
“My truth is better than yours!”
How are you going to handle things when either the cheater or the lover tell you that their truth is better than yours. Although the whole idea of competing
The Pull of Attraction to Unhealthy people
One of the groups I belong to on facebook is the one for my high school class. Although it’s not as active as other groups, I enjoy receiving updates
