Category: Swingers
Being Groomed
Ameena came to me distraught. She found herself devastated after what happened in her marriage. She had tried dealing with the pain by herself, yet the crying episodes and
How the Swinging Lifestyle Can Unintentionally Alter Marriages: A Cautionary Tale
Entering the world of a swinging lifestyle can be an intriguing notion for many couples looking to explore new horizons within their sexual lives. However, the story of a
Life is not going back to normal
When a husband came in puzzled and concerned that his wife had regrets after swinging my response was “What did you expect?” It astounds me he was genuinely surprised
I just wanted them to be happy
An inquiring reader asked whether marriages fail after trying the swinger lifestyle. Since I haven’t seen any ‘official’ numbers on this topic, my first answer is “I don’t know”
From Infidelity to Swinging
A reader wanted to know about going from infidelity to swinging. From an addiction perspective, both infidelity and swinging are part of the progression of sexual addiction. Let me
Losing control at a swingers party
When a reader expressed shocked concern that his wife went off with another man at a swinger’s party, I experienced mixed reactions. I was saddened by his wife’s going
“Life won’t go back to normal!”
When a husband came in puzzled and concerned that his wife had regrets after swinging my response was “What did you expect?” It astounds me he was genuinely surprised
The Tsunami Warning
Back in 2015, I attended a presentation by Patrick Carnes. If you don’t know him, he’s one of the early thought leaders in dealing with sexual addiction. During his
Sexual Addiction, Reconciliation and Healing
The headline of her post was “Help. Can we reconcile?” Even though it was a longer post, she said it was the short version of her story. It would
Lying and Swinging caused our divorce
There are some parts of the affair recovery journey you’ll walk alone. You can ask for the counsel and advice of others, which helps you see the situation from
