Category: Swingers
Lying and Swinging caused our divorce
There are some parts of the affair recovery journey you’ll walk alone. You can ask for the counsel and advice of others, which helps you see the situation from
High-Tech Swingers
In a breakfast conversation, I had a few years ago with a high tech expert, the subject of swingers came up. This isn’t surprising since people ask what I
High Tech Swingers
In a breakfast conversation, I had a few years ago with a high tech computer programming expert, the subject of swingers came up. This isn’t surprising since people ask
Going too far in making your spouse happy
An inquiring reader asked whether marriages fail after trying the swinger lifestyle. Since I haven’t seen any ‘official’ numbers on this topic, my first answer is “I don’t know”
Are you going too far in making your spouse happy?
An inquiring reader asked whether marriages fail after trying the swinger lifestyle. Since I haven’t seen any ‘official’ numbers on this topic, my first answer is “I don’t know”
Coerced into Swinging
Twelve years ago I wrote a post entitled “The Dark Side of Swinging“. The popularity of that post has astounded me both in terms of the traffic to it
When Affairs become Swinging
A reader wanted to know about going from infidelity to swinging. From an addiction perspective, both infidelity and swinging are part of the progression of sexual addiction. The difference
My wife went off with another man!
When a reader expressed concern that his wife went off with another man at a swingers party, I experienced mixed reactions. I was saddened at his wife going off
His wife regretted swinging
When a question came in from a husband expressing surprise and concern that his wife had regrets after swinging, my response to him was “What did you expect?” It
Sexual Addictions, Swinging and Reconciling
The headline of her post was “Help. Can we reconcile?” Even though it was a longer post, she said it was the short version of her story. It would
