Category: Swingers
“Do marriages fall apart after swinging?”
An inquiring reader asked whether marriages fail after trying the swinger lifestyle. Since I haven’t seen any ‘official’ numbers on this topic, my first answer is “I don’t know”.
From Infidelity to Swinging
A reader wanted to know about ‘going from infidelity to swinging’. From an addiction perspective, both infidelity and swinging are part of the progression of compulsive sexual behavior. Let
Swinging with a couple you’re already friends with
One of the areas that comes up with regularity in recovering from affairs is the issue of swinging. Swinging, which used to be called ‘wife swapping’ is now known
Casinos and Wife Swapping
The first time I stepped foot in a casino was when my brother-in-law took my wife and I. On entering the casino, we stepped into a whole other world.
Will sleeping around make me happier in my marriage?
Some of the most passionate comments on my blog come from swingers insistent that they are ‘happier’ than others and that their lifestyle is ‘wonderful’. Their proclamations of being
The Shelter-in-Place shock for swingers.
During the early stages of the COVID-19 shelter-in-place I started seeing increased traffic regarding swinger-related items. This trend piqued my curiosity. Over the next few days, it became clear
Ameena and the Grooming Swingers
Ameena came to me distraught. She found herself devastated after what happened in her marriage. She tried dealing with the pain by herself, yet the crying episodes and guilt
Why fixable marriages fail
Do you want your marriage healed? Although this sounds like something that you obviously want, you need to seriously ask yourself this question. Let’s assume that you want your
Ministers, Infidelity and Swinging
Yesterday, I told you about the ‘Wow’ comment from Australia. Just a few weeks prior, on the same blog post, I received a comment from another fan of swinging.
Getting a “Wow!” letter from Australia
At times, the only initial response I can muster to a letter is “Wow! Just Wow!” At those moments, I take a breath and shake my head in disbelief
