Category: Swingers
Getting a “Wow!” letter from Australia
At times, the only initial response I can muster to a letter is “Wow! Just Wow!” At those moments, I take a breath and shake my head in disbelief
Wife swapping gone wrong
It amazes me how swinger trolls leave posts about how swinging (or wife swapping) has improved their lives and helped them find their sexuality. They go on and claim
Uncomfortable truths about secretly encouraging Affairs
There are some truths that make people squirm, including myself. I know when I encounter them, I cringe on hearing them. Even though they’re unpleasant, I still have to
Why sleep with another man?
On reading through the questions sent to me, there are times I’d like to shut down my computer and walk away. At such moments I ask myself “How could
Convincing my wife that permission isn’t Adultery
There are times when I wonder if I received someone else’s email. At least with snail mail, when someone else’s mail is put in my box, I can send
Is guilt a good or a bad thing?
Have you ever considered whether guilt was a good or bad thing? Before assuming one answer you need to consider how you deal with that questions is an important
Surviving the first couple swap
A recent question that came across the SurviveYourPartnersAffair blog caught my attention. The person was looking for answers on ‘surviving the first couple swap’. These reactions are quite common.
What’s your marriage focused on?
In working with couples recovering from affairs, I’ve learned that there are some topics that lightning rod issues. Those topics spark comments and reactions. I’ve also learned that there
The sexual Tsunami is here!
Three years ago, in 2015, I attended a presentation by the sexual addiction specialist Patrick Carnes. I’d heard him speak several times before and was looking forward to this
Is Your Spouse your top Priority?
If I asked the question “Is your spouse a priority with you?” I’d likely receive many positive responses. If your marriage and your spouse weren’t priorities, you wouldn’t likely
