A writer once said that there are thousands of ways to start an affair, but not one good way to end them. Although affairs are often easy to start, they are not easy to pull away from. Once the feelings and emotions are involved and boding takes place, leaving the relationship is akin to leaving part of yourself behind. Many times those who are caught up in affairs are looking for ways to ‘ease out’ of the situation. There is no easy way out, there is no painless way to stop the relationship. Someone is going to experience hurt. You can not avoid the pain. Let the pain teach you something about relationships and about commitment.
I mentioned a television show that promotes swinging. In shows like that one as well as movies, they often do not fully convey the pain associated with affairs. If they did, few people would ever even consider having one. If people knew there was no easy way out and the amount of pain it will bring, they would not even consider starting one.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
