Watching babies is both education and entertainment. In watching them, one can learn a great deal about human nature. One hallmark of babies is that they ‘react’ to the environment. Many of their behaviors are reactions to what is going on around them. Unfortunately many people continue their lives in the react mode. They passively go through life reacting to one item or event after another. This pattern continues into adulthood where they continue reacting to events and people. In such situations they may have an affair as a reaction to something that their spouse did or did not do. They did not actively initiate an affair, instead it was a reaction. Such a reaction is nothing more that a sophisticated temper tantrum with sexual playthings involved. Don’t laugh, I have worked with couples whose infidelity stemmed back to reactions to something their spouse said or did. In many cases, since the spouse would not let them do something, they ‘showed them’ by going out and having the affair. They may call themselves adults, but the pattern of their actions is one of a baby.
You can overcome these baby reactions. Find out in Infidelity: Survive Your Partner’s Affair.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
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