With the Christmas and holiday season upon us, there is also the increased danger of affairs. Although many people associate the holidays with family times, the holidays are also an important time for affairs. The holidays often bring high expectations and emotional upheavals. The expectations and upheavals are also a breeding ground for affairs. With all the money spent on gifts and time spent shopping, adulterers often use the chaos as an opportunity to sneak off and spend time with their paramour.
An affairs is not a pleasant gift to unwrap for Christmas. It has a way of giving more pain and hurt than it takes away. They totally change any associations that may have existed concerning the holidays. At the time an affair is underway, those involved do not view themselves as ‘grinches’ that steal joy and happiness, instead they see themselves as hurting and deserving of some joy in their lives. Between the expectations of their family and themselves, someone is going to get hurt. In most cases, everyone loses. Affairs often promise joy and the realization of a fantasy, but the reality is that they bring with them pain, loneliness, conflicts and lies.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
