Being stalked in unnerving. What used to consists of driving by a persons home or place of business has become high tech. Presently there are methods of tracking what is typed on a computer keyboard, where a car travels to, and where a person is by means of the GPS in their phones. Although such inventions are useful for private eyes and families dealing with drug abuse problems, they are potentially dangerous when used in stalking.
Since stalking can be done by a spouse who is concerned with their spouses potentially wayward behavior, or by a lover who is obsessed with the adulterer, or even by the adulterer who is obsessed with the lover, there are many variations of this scenario. The many spy stores now in existence offer whole lines of products for such purposes and more for the truly creative minds. There are also a wide variety of such products on the internet in the form of either hardware or software. With all this technology, engaging in clandestine relationships suddenly becomes very dangerous. If you are considering an affair, it is imperative that you have some knowledge of these dangers.
Some tips in dealing with stalking:
1. Do not allow others to use your cellphone for extended periods outside of your site.
2. Know what is supposed to be and not be in your cars engine area.
3. Pay attention to the cars around you when you are driving.
4. Do not lend out your computer or passwords carelessly.
5. Pay attention to the conversations of those you are with, noting any patterns that would indicate obsessive behaviors.
6. Use caution when going out for the evening or going to or from work.
7. Do not advertise your home address.
8. Be careful with the use or borrowing of charge cards.
9. Be careful with the material posted on social network pages.
10. Be careful with what is sent via text messages on cell phones.
Although these may seem to be common sense, when in the midst of a relationship, people do not often practice common sense behaviors.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
