The other day, I came across a website that suggested monogamy amounts to nothing more than a religious belief. I have heard many extreme ideas promoted to justify having affairs, and this amounted to the latest. Although religious beliefs provide support for the practice of monogamy, it is more than that.
The practice of monogamy is not limited to one particular country. It is the norm in many nations. The nations where monogamy is practiced, have more social stability than those nations that do not. Monogamy is foundational to social stability. Even more important is the idea of family stability. Although the phenomena of serial families is occurring with greater frequency, the structure of such families not one of stability. The social milieu of such is chaotic at best. The structure allows the adults great freedom, but is brutal on the children. Describing such a milieu as ‘self-serving’ is a label that fits.
Monogamy is also the preferred arrangement for bonding. When you want a stable relationship with one person, it is better for the mental health of both husband and wife when they are in an exclusive relationship. That boding allows for the development of emotional security and intellectual stability. As anyone in the dating scene knows, not having stability in relationships is often anxiety provoking.
Monogamy is also better for one’s physical health. Persons with greater sexual promiscuity are exposed to a wider range of diseases and health issues than those in monogamous relationships. The greater the number of partners, the greater the risk of diseases. With all the news items on having improved health, this is one thing that can be done to have better health.
Viewing the practice of fidelity in relationships as a mere religious practice is a falsehood. Remaining loyal to your spouse is better for the family, society, your emotional health, your physical health, and your mind. Despite the many benefits of fidelity, some individuals remain determined to practice infidelity, with all the associated dangers it carries with it.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
