When I was younger, my dad told me that “If you get into a girl’s pants, rest assured that you are not the first nor will you be the last”. In dealing with couples faced with affairs, I can appreciate what he told me. When an attractive female is easy to get into bed, there is usually a reason (or attractive male). Although the man getting into the ladies pants thinks that he has just accomplished something, the reality is, it is probably a set up or trap and he does not recognize that he just fell for it.
One of the classic scams is for a woman to come on to a man. Once she has him hooked, she presents the threat (my husband is getting out of prison, my husband is coming back from his trip…). The man then attempts to escape. What follows is a series of threats to reveal the “affair” or show the pictures unless a particular amount of money is paid.
Here the affair situation is turned into a blackmail scenario. What started as a ‘hot’ relationship turns into a nightmare with a large tab.
When the man or woman is too easy, or too convenient, there is often a reason for it.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
