It always breaks my heart to hear a spouse ask this question, often with tears in their eyes. The simple answer is yes. The scary thing to consider is “how much of a chance do we have?”, which is slim, if any. The more realistic question is “How much pain are you willing to endure in healing the relationship?” Some people are actually willing to do what it takes to change. Others only want to do what will either ease their conscience or get the pain to a tolerable level. At the tolerable level, there is a spark of hope, yet they are often unwilling to follow the issues through to the end.
These are sobering and scary questions which not everyone is willing to look at. Yes, there is hope. How much are you willing to do? Are you willing to do something about it now? If so, start with my e-book and the instructions and direction it provides. Make a choice to change your marriage.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey D. Murrah
