Being passive is a sure way to allow cheating to destroy your marriage. In dealing with cheating, you need to take action, whether you are the cheater or the one who was cheated on, …TAKE ACTION.
The answers are not going to come to you. You can spend your time wishing and praying. Even when you get an answer to that prayer, it will require action.
When you stay passive, you allow events and others to control you and control your life. You are not in control. By avoiding making choices, they are being made for you. What makes things worse, is that the longer you remain passive, the stronger it becomes. The passivity becomes a way of life.
What can I do? You can do plenty. You can start by registering for the teleseminar I am participating in tonight. The link is here.
Other things you can do include:
1. Learn about what relationships need
2. Reach out to three people today and talk with them about what relationships need.
3. Write down your feelings and what you are struggling with.
4. Sing! (I know it sounds hokey, but singing works on activating the vocal chords and decreases the passivity).
5. Write a letter to a friend about what you need and what you understand that your marriage needs.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
BTW-I am debating which headline sounds better for a new product. Here are the two choices:
1. How to Grab Your Spouse by the Collar,
Drag that (Son of a) Bitch out of La-La Land and
Put Your Marriage Back Together
2. Learn ways of getting your spouse to talk to you about your marriage
Feel free to let me know which of these two sound better.
One Response
LOL! I definitely think #1 is the better headline/title! I would buy it based on that!