When dealing with a cheater, many issues have a way of spinning out of control. What started off as a little things somehow grow larger and larger until they are “out of control”. These issues ‘snowball’ into something larger than needed. Soon you are buried under a mountain of snowballs. The snow men become snow monsters. The sheer weight of these snowballed issues crushes you under the pressure. This is snowball hell.
In order to prevent snowball hell, deal with things when they are small. You can handle throwing and being hit with the small snow balls. When you take care of them at this stage, they will not blow you away or knock you down. Waiting to deal with them only makes them worse.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
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