There are ways to minimize stalking. Keep in mind that the stalker pays attention to your patterns. One way to throw them off is to change your patterns. If you are being stalked, you may want to consider driving home a new way. Stop at new gas stations and grocery stores. Visit web sites that are ‘unlike’ you. Changing your patterns throw a monkey wrench into the stalkers observations.
Bear in mind that if the stalker knew your patterns, they would not be wanting to know more.
If you are dealing with a potentially violent stalker, or one that abuses drugs or alcohol, you will want to make sure that your cell phone always has a good charge and that you stay where you have good reception. You will also want to avoid places where you could be ambushed.
Stalkers will make you self-conscious. It is important that you do not let that self-awareness turn into paranoia. If the stalker is hired, then it is costing someone for them to chase you. If the stalker is someone involved in the affair, the more time they spend stalking you, the less time they will have for the affair. There are some potentials for leveraging their stalking behavior. You can not stop totally stop it, but you can leverage it to your benefit.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
