Stalking is unsettling, especially when you are the one being stalked. It leaves you feeling violated and suspicious. When you discover that someone is stalking you, there are many questions. The one stalking you may be the lover, the cheater, the want to be lover, the spouse of the lover, family member of the lover or a former lover. Knowing the stalker is disturbing, although not knowing them is even more unsettling.
It helps to know what they are stalking. Are they stalking you online? Following your patterns? Wanting to know where you live? Are they looking for your associations or your financial matters?
Knowing what they are looking for can help you counter what they are attempting.
How did you discover the stalking? If you received an anonymous tip, how do you know it was for real? There are some unscrupulous types that create the impression that you are being stalked, when what they are after is for you to start imagining things and freaking yourself out.
What is the stalkers relationship with you? The nature of the relationship can give you insights as to what you need to do.
It also helps if you know about the stalker before they get in too deep.
These are some places to start in coming to grips with a stalker.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
