Is your spouse hiding their dark intentions behind what appears as beneficial behavior? One of the red flags alerting you to danger may be right in front of you and you’re missing it.
If your spouse was brutally honest, they would tell you about their dark plans. Instead, when they hide those plans behind ‘good’ behavior, they gain your approval for what they are intending.
Although you want your spouse to remain attractive, that very quality may be working against you. When your spouse starts focusing on their fitness without you, there are dangers ahead.
When they start getting fit, an important question for you is “Who are they getting fit for?” It’s one thing if the doctor recommends it for their health. It’s quite another thing when they are preparing for an affair.
The beneficial behavior of getting fit is one of the signs alerting you that they are readying themselves for change. The more radical the fitness, the more radical the change they are making.
You readily know the signs of spring, but you may be oblivious to this sign of an approaching affair. The new effort they put into their fitness, clothes and hygiene says they are making changes.
Change is never ‘out of the blue’. If you’ve ever undertaken a fitness routine, you know the importance of having a goal to strive toward. The dangerous goals are the hidden ones. When your spouse hides their goal, it’s time for turning detective.
Some of the other things to look for include dressing inappropriate for their age. Their dress sends a message to the world about how they want others to view them and treat them. Their dress may also be a display for potential lovers.
If you are facing these kinds of situations, you’ll want to consider watching the video “Overcoming the Affair Crisis”. The affair may not have happened yet, although there are things you can do in heading them off at the pass.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
