Category: Emotional Recovery
Physical Symptoms and Affairs
Some of you who recently discovered an affair are surprised by the experience. I’m not talking about the whole shock and surprise of the affair, but rather the symptoms
“Is improved communication enough?”
I hate computer problems, water heater problems during the winter, and automobile problems. Gadgets and tools are easier to mess up than they are to fix. Although I expect
AP’s fighting for love
In some recent exchanges with an AP (Affair Partner-a.k.a. the Lover), she raised some items needing attention. Although you may not want to even consider the AP’s opinion, thoughts
I discovered she was not my daughter
A recent email touched my heart. It was from a father who was devastated at discovering his teenage daughter was not ‘his’. Just reading it, I could feel the
Living With the Affair Fog
It was back in 2007 that I began my blog addressing issues related to affairs and recovering from them. In the past 17 years of keeping up, I’ve seen
Have you considered an Affair?
Have you ever thought about the moment you considered the possibility your spouse cheated on you? Typically, there was something that changed or felt different. It may have been
“I don’t have to stay in this marriage!”
In talking with couples about affairs, I see a wide range of reactions. Given the many emotions and passions stirred up by infidelity, it’s no surprise. Some affairs come
Are you frustrating your spouse?
If you want to frustrate your spouse and wreck communication, one sure way is by asking them ‘unanswerable questions’. Although you may assume that every question has an answer,
The Action- Reaction Retraction Dance
Over the years I realized that there really is a purpose to math. Math allows me to track finances, keep tallies, and make sense of statistics. Although many kids
Why your friends won’t help
Are there times you wonder why your friends don’t support you working things out with your spouse? Although your friends, especially those who attended your marriage should be supporting
