Category: Recovery and Self-Care
Hope versus Wishcraft
Many of you may be wanting your marriage to survive the affair. In your determination to save your marriage you find yourself making wishes about what will happen. You
Am I wrong to be resentful?
Resentment is one of the feelings that you will find yourself having to wrestle with in the aftermath of an affair. Resentment is one of those areas where there
Dealing with fretting and worrry
Many times we often take the good things in life and make them bad. We often turn blessings into curses without realizing what you are doing. In an old
“Will it bring healing?”
On finding out about an affair, you may find yourself experiencing a burst of energy. For some it is driven by fear, for others it is driven by anger
The damage of false accusations
There are times when the accusation of cheating does as much damage to you as actual cheating. Your marriage may have to go through recovery, even though it was
Cleaning up after leaving the Swinger Lifestyle
When you leave the Affair/Swinging/Promiscuous Lifestyle, you’ll need a ‘clean up’. It’s not by accident that the old expression, “clean up your act” comes to mind. When a behavior
Getting out of an affair lifestyle
It is always harder getting out of an affair and an affair lifestyle than it was getting into it. The excitement of dress up, new stimulation, and new sensations
Looking for silver linings
Although you are told to be thankful for all things, it is hard to be thankful for anything related to your spouse having an affair. You can be thankful
Are cheaters evil?
You probably hate adultery and its effects. If you have not learned to hate adultery in all its forms, it is going to be hard to get through any
Dealing with Ghosts
The topic of ghosts and affairs seems odd. If you are in a marriage where either you or your spouse was married before, you can begin to understand what
