Archive for January, 2008
Valentine’s Day is approaching. With it’s approach, many couples begin thinking of love and acknowledging the importance they place on each other. In healthy marriages, it is an enjoyable time of love, flowers and chocolate. The days leading up to Valentine’s is also a time when affairs and infidelity are exposed. Because of the emphasis […]
A common event I witness in working with couples is that the adulterer confesses what they did and the resolute spouse immediately forgives them. The adulterer experiences a sensation of relief and actually believes that dealing with the affair incident is done.
Several weeks or months later, the adulterer feels that resolute spouse is nagging and […]
Secrets are the life blood of affairs. The secrecy and dangers involved add to the excitement of doing something that is forbidden. Some people hide their secrets out of shame and fear, others keep them for the rush and sense of power and control associated with secrets. Whether driven by shame or the stimulation, the […]
I saw this article in scanning the news regarding infidelity. The unsettling thing is that people are attempting hiring hit men for jobs in other states and locations. Such situations take “Fatal Attraction” type situations to a whole new level. The infidels met online taking a course together.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
P.S. I aplogize for some questionable […]
Men and women view affairs differently. Men are often more threatened by the sexual aspect of their wives’s affairs, while wives are more often threatened by the emotional aspects of the affair. The threat aspect is often very real. In the past week, I have seen several articles on “Is your husband’s avatar faithful?” On […]
In the case of the Philadelphia rapper Alton “Ace Capone” Coles, a music empire and infidelity went hand in hand. Now one of his girlfriends is testifying against him for many things. The main one I want to focus on is his ‘cheating’. The girlfriend expressed concern for the children that he had fathered. It […]
Affairs are a serious matter. The latest high powered official to come under fire is the Mayor of Detroit. It seems that Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick was having an affair with the Chief of Staff. Those who found evidence in the text messages blew the whistle on the affair. One person was fired for investigating the […]
Have you set your spouse up for an affair? There are some spouses that have set up their spouses for an affair. Through actions that are either conscious or unconscious, they set the stage for an affair to occur. I don’t condone such affairs. I can understand how they happen. When a spouse ignores their […]
As I have been working on an exciting new e-book focusing on the effects of affairs on children, new realizations have become much clearer. Among these new realizations is that, “everyone loses with an affair”. Although Americans often look at the world in terms of winners and losers, with affairs, no one can be considered […]
Scars serve as reminders of what happened to us. Many times our bodies have scars that are reminders of accidents or poor decisions. Although the episodes happened long before, the scar is a reminder that it happened. In a similar manner, the emotional scars of affairs often linger for years afterwards. They remind us what […]
