Archive for April, 2008
If you want to be notified the next time I write something, sign up for email alerts or subscribe to the RSS Feed. Thanks for reading. After finding out about your spouse’s affair, the possibility of vengeance or revenge is high. Although vengeance seems to be a good way to let off steam and […]
Telling the children about an affair is a heart wrenching matter. It is not easy to tell them without the rage and intense hurt spilling over. As a parent you also want to avoid explicit details and adult language to describe what occurred. The pain of hearing about an affair is painful enough. Turing the […]
In the aftermath of an affair, there is the deep seated desire to punish. Sometimes, this desire is directed at the paramour and sometimes at your spouse. One of the more difficult things to sort out is what is behind this desire. Is it a need to right the wrongs done? If that is the […]
Some spouses actively seek their partner’s permission for an affair. Although some ask directly, others hold onto comments made in anger or frustration as verbal approval for their disloyalty. The catch is that once this cat is out of the bag, it is difficult to ever put it back. Once the boundaries of the marriage […]
One of the lines that I enjoyed in the move “Joe versus the Volcano” is when the main character is having a conversation and the comment is made that very few people are actually awake and that we spend most of our time asleep. This comment has a bearing on affairs. Many times people are […]
In dealing with an affair situation, finding the rights words and the right time to say them is often challenging. The best time to say them and the ideal time to say them are not the same. Even though you may have rehearsed what you are going to say several times over, it is usually […]
There is a time, in the aftermath of an affair, when either through urges, frustration, temptation or just giving up that you consider having an affair yourself. Although it is tempting, you will need to resist the urge. This is one of those items that you will need to fast forward the tape and look […]
A recent article in the Times of London dealt with a topic many couples have to face. The issue they addressed was ’serial womanizing’. This phenomena is not limited to males, there are also women with serial relationships with men. The serial womanizer is often charming and they do not always tell their spouses about […]
As children, when we were ill, it was common that our mothers often gave us some awful tasting medicine. Although you hated the taste, it helped with the healing process. In a similar manner, there are things that have to be realized in dealing with affairs. On another site, where I have several pages dealing […]
Adultery is a problem in many workplaces, including the military. In a recent story, Jacob Martinez went to trial and was found guilty of adultery and assault. He was found guilty and now faces the punishment for his actions. It is difficult to have a mixed environment without there being some danger of adultery. When […]
