What are the chances of my marriage surviving an affair? The latest research indicates that 2/3 of couples with affairs do not make it. When I look at that number, it is intimidating. I also realize that many lawyers and private investigators want that number high since it means more business. If you want to save your marriage, you can, but it will mean work. The odds are against you since modern society sees divorce and affairs linked together. Most of the divorces in response to affairs are not necessary. When you eliminate the private investigators and divorce lawyers, you dramatically improve the likelihood of surviving an affair.
One prerequisite to surviving an affair is that both parties need to make a conscious decision to not give up on each other for at least 18 months.
Taking such an action will provide you with a place to start.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
