If you are a wife whose husband cheated on you, they may tell you that they were trapped. In some cases, this could be true. There are some women who are ‘on the prowl’ for men. Married men are their favored target for various reasons. One of the issues with married men is that they can be trapped, or put into a ‘blackmail’ type situation. In some cases, the entrapment is about extorting money out of them, in some cases, it is about power and in others, it is about giving them children without strings.The manhunter may enjoy having power of their victim.
In trapping the victim, the manhunter does not hesitate to lie. Any actions she takes to trap a ‘victim’ is acceptable in her mind. In their world, the end justified the means. They may threaten lawsuits, make false reports to the police, lie about birth control. go public with shameful pictures, and use guilt to keep their victim under control. In some cases, they may use their victim to get pregnant and then financially milk them to support the child and family. Since they are not married to the victim, they do not have the obligations that go with marriage, yet since they have a child by the victim, they have the law on their side, along with guilt to pressure the victim to support them and their child for many years. This way, the manhunter has someone supporting them financially for many years.
The best time to escape a manhunter is ASAP. The chains of their control only strengthen in time. Over time, they render their victim paralyzed and powerless to resist them. When you hear of celebrities having mistresses over the years, they may not be choosing to have expensive toys, in many cases, they have been victimized by a manhunter who hooked their wagon on a rising star and it paid off.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
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Many thanks for the warning …if those who need to hear it will heed it. I remember also a site called “Lovefraud’ that also has accounts of this sort of thing
My own husband has been ensnared and our whole family PLUS the children she urged him to ‘give ‘ her are being hurt.
I wish there were laws for this sort of thing but it is hard to prove when you have been ‘cooperative ‘ with a CON of this type.
I await the outcome…what she sows WILL be reaped and the timing and situation I believe is in the Lord’s sight for the best outcome for His purposes. But it is very difficult for all of those who are ‘victims’ of these vipers in the mean time…I am trying to make the best of it as I study more in the Word of what I am to do …meanwhile my husband is having a very difficult time ,..physical stress , financial losses, emotional scars …and his guilt is not a ‘quick fix’ even with support and forgiveness from me and our family.
She continues this …and it will go on until the children are 18 or 21….and because of HIS emotional bonds…it is pretty much the only place he is willing to invest his efforts .
I feel like a widow or a nurse now ….and I can only continue to try to do what the Lord says for me to do …He has a difficult time just getting through the day….but he is able by his ‘compartmentalization.
He cannot seem to forgive himself …even as he has been assured of this as the Word tells.
This looks like it will be a lengthy process…as the Lord says …we are joined by Him ….for better or worse, in sickness and in health…for richer or poorer…..looks like I am getting my ‘education ‘ in the part which is ‘worse’ , sickness…and such while he gave her the ‘better’ , health, and ‘ wealth’ but the kicker is that he sees her NOW for what she IS …..and I don’t ,mind being the ‘contrast’ in this picture…
The damage she has done to all is evident that she does no KNOW love and never has ..this may be the unkindest ‘cut ‘ of all …since he now sees what a wasted life has and what he invested all of it in …and missed out on ..
I recall frequently throughout my life on the sidelines of his ….’What does it profit a man if he gains the WHOLE world but loses his soul’? Wise words I have tried to keep in mind over the years…tried to remind him not to spend his whole life on his career and miss the kids ….I now know he did not miss out because of his career but because he was ‘investing’ his life in this woman …and now ..the children she got him to give her….
He is like a walking shell …sorrowful …and ‘dead inside’ according to him ..even as I try to encouraging him with the way the LORD regards and tells us to become cleansed and redeemed….He can’t seem to ‘forgive himself ‘ and he feels so trapped now .
Sad….but I have HOPE…in Jesus Christ who said ..”with man it may be impossible ..but with GOD ALL things are possible …’ this is true according to what he has told us is HIS will in all things recorded in His word….
How awesome this is to recall when I am sad or feeling lonely …
I appreciate the joys of life ..and humor is STILL a very important part of my life …odd isn’t it ..when the MOST devastating thing in all of what I had thought was such a wonderful husband …is revealed to have been so foolish and duped by such a person …because he would not seek to learn what his vulnerabilities were ..as God tells us …and then make the effort to protect what he had …
A squandered life ..when he had it all LITERALLY .
Very sad…..yet …as long as a person BREATHES there is HOPE …
Zaza,
Manhunters are definitely a problem that many people have to deal with, as you well know.