Chess has taught me many lessons about life. Whether or not they were lessons or illustrations of practical truths, I learned them. I was always someone who had to see some truths being applied.
One of the truths is that the game is not over until the last move. Even though it seems helpless at times, there are always moves that can surprise you.
That taught me not to give up when things seem hopeless. Losing pieces and position have a way of removing hopeful feelings. I’ve seen games won with only two pieces left. It’s important that you don’t give up until the last move.
In terms of affair recovery, you also need to stay in until the last move. I’ve seen couples make the mistake of quitting their efforts before the final move was finished.
Some quit when they felt hopeless, others quit when they thought it looked like they’d win. They stopped before finishing the game.
When it comes to affair recovery, it’s important that you continue working even after the affair ends. Following through with a good relapse prevention plan is essential. If you quit before finishing the plan that your turnaround is incomplete.
Do you even know what to look for that lets you know that the cheater has completed their turnaround? They say they’ve changed, but how can you be sure?
There are things to look for and ways of making sure that the cheater’s really changed their ways. In the video on “Preventing Affair Relapse“, I address these issues. You can know what to look for and ways of reducing the risk of relapse.
If you aren’t sure how to follow-up and close the risk of relapse, you’ll want to click and start taking action now.
You’ve been through enough hard work without having to repeat it due to not following through and finishing recovery from the affair. The affair isn’t over when the cheater quits seeing the lover.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
