In some previous posts, I told you about the danger of creepers. They love when you and your spouse aren’t getting along. Marital conflict gives them a sinister smile.
Anytime a creeper hears about marital rough spots, they see the window of opportunity open. It makes them happy when the two of you aren’t getting along. Hearing news of discord is music to their ears.
They know that your spouse has needs, and they don’t mind doing whatever it takes in meeting those needs along with some of their desires.
For them, the dirtier the deed, the better for them.
They know that when the deeds are dirty, the bonds formed are stronger. Dirty deeds make for stronger secrets. They’ll intentionally do things you won’t. No deed is too dirty or disgusting for them. They intentionally engage in sexual acts you avoid or feel uncomfortable with.
Creepers also know that how vulnerable your marriage is anytime there are disagreements. They see opportunity where you see disagreements.
Most creepers prefer married spouses. They know a married spouse is easier prey for their games.
They also know that a married spouse is a better playmate than singles. They can’t run away like the singles can. In a married spouse, they have a captive audience.
Although some creepers keep their slime to phone messages and bawdy pictures, most don’t. They want a relationship that goes deep and dark. They use play as a way of engaging your spouse.
What starts as flirting and play intentionally spreads faster than a communicable disease. They intend for things to go too far.
They know the power such relationships have over others. They use the guilt and shame in controlling your spouse.
If you find their slime on your spouse’s phone, you can bet that you are only seeing the tip of the iceberg. Things go much deeper than you realize. They found your spouse’s dark side and are tapping into it.
If a creeper has found their way into your marriage, it needs help. The relationship needs to end and the communication in your marriage needs revitalizing. In the video “We Need to Talk: Hurting People and Healing Questions”, you’ll find ways of improving the communication and intimacy needed in your marriage.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
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