Have you considered what lessons you’ve learned from the pandemic and lockdown? After having spent all that time going through the ordeal, you learned some lessons about your marriage and relationships.
Although I hope all your lessons were pleasant ones, I’ve talked with enough people to know otherwise. The whole experience put you in a position for re-evaluating and reconsidering many aspects of your life.
It forced you into close quarters with your spouse. During that time your relationship moved beyond the mind-numbing daily routines to a new way of doing things. You also gained a new appreciation for things you may had previously taken for granted.
I know one thing I missed during the lockdown was going out to eat at Mexican food restaurants. The whole experience of smells, tastes and sensations was something I missed more than I thought I would.
I also gained a new appreciation of the relationships with our neighbors. They helped make the lockdown experience more tolerable.
In terms of my relationship with my wife, we discussed health issues and concerns with a new seriousness. We also worked together on handling the various hardships the lockdown brought.
It could be that the pandemic had you and your spouse in closer contact as well. You may have grown closer to each other after the experience.
Although some of you grew closer, some fought more and discovered cheating and disloyalties you weren’t aware of. You were also faced with a reality where you had to live with each other without ways of running away or escaping.
If you are one of those who copes by running away, the pandemic was torturous. There was no place to go. Sure, you could lose yourself with television for a few hours, but then you’re back in the situation you were running from.
This forced the two of you to find a way of living with each other and living with the pain. As things are loosening up, life will change again, along with your marriage.
This means there will be new temptations and new risks for cheating to happen again. It’s easier staying together when things are shut down. When things open up, how are you going to deal with it?
This is where the video, “Preventing Affair Relapse” comes in. The video guides the two of you in knowing what to look for along with ways of handling those situations.
Since you can’t be with each other around the clock each day, you need a plan for handling the dangers. This video prepares you for the challenges that come with the potential of affair relapse.
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Keeping It Real,
Jeff
