Cheaters are notorious for missing hints. Their affair partner could be giving them signs that it’s time for the affair to end. An affair needs to end when the cheater encounters these tell-tale signs.
The first sign is that they start to feel guilty about what they are doing, which leads them to a temporary break from their affair partner. The tendency to break up, followed by getting back and breaking up again is a sign they don’t feel comfortable about what’s going on. When this pattern happens repeatedly, someone is missing a clear sign.
Another sign of an ending affair is if one or both of the partners starts to become emotionally distant and starts withdrawing from friends and family or distancing the cheater from them.
Thirdly, when the spouse of one of the affair partners intervenes. This is a sure sign the affair is over.
Fourthly, when there are no references to the future or the two of you being together. When they haven’t made room for you in their future or even talk about it, the relationship is going nowhere.
Fifthly, when they act like they’re single when with you. When they act like they can’t be seen with you or associated with you, it’s a clear indication that the relationship is dysfunctional.
Sixthly, when they quit making time for you, it signals that the relationship is no longer as important as it was. How people spend their time is a measure of their values. Not making time shows that the value they place on you is diminished.
Seventh, when the affair partner won’t introduce you to their family. Keeping rigid boundaries like this makes it clear that the relationship is temporary and has a shelf life. It also makes it clear that the relationship is about playtime and not real life.
This shortlist is a compilation of signs that the affair partners want to end the affair. Some spouses either don’t know how to end their affair or can’t take hints. Either way, the affair needs to end.
It’s not a healthy or productive way to live. It’s time-consuming and expensive. And, in the end, it causes more problems than it solves. If you’re in an affair, take heed of these signs and end it before it does more damage.
If you are struggling with ending it, consider the video “Help for the Cheater: Starting the Road to Recovery“. Just click, download and start making the necessary changes to your relationships.
There are times you need help ending things and accepting endings. The video guides you through the challenges of ending and the changes it brings.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
