Are you desperate? Do you even know what the word desperate means? In its most common use, it means ‘without hope’. It can also mean that things are irretrievable, in other words, it has reached the point of no turning back, the point of no return. Desperate also means that you are furious about what is happening.
You may be in a tough spot, and feel desperate. There is a big difference between feeling desperate and truly being at the point of not having hope.
If you are without hope, what are you doing about it? Where are you going for hope? Where are you going for support? What is your source of inner strength. In dealing with an affair, you often need something bigger than yourself to deal with hurts that are beyond you.
At this point, you are still searching, there is still some hope. You still have some strength. I am glad that you do. In encourage you to take care of yourself. Get enough sleep, get some exercise. You need to be in better shape to confront an affair. You also need to know your options. It is easy to feel hopeless when you do not know what your options are.
Know what your options are regarding finances, regarding living options, regarding your children. Instead of focusing on what you can’t control, consider what you can control
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
