It is astonishing to see how far cheaters will go in making excuses for what they do. You’ve likely heard many of the excuses. You may have even believed many of their excuses.
You want to think positively, hope for the best and believe what they tell you. Knowing that some cheaters take advantage by coming up with some new way of expressing old behaviors.
Mentally flirting amounts to old fashioned ‘fantasizing’. Sure, it may involve some new twist by incorporating some new fangled brain technique, but it is nothing more than fantasizing repackaged for a new generation.
The cheater may be using mental focus to ‘interact’ with the person in their mind. They may even believe that they are only flirting with their target in their head.
Constructing ‘new’ realities in one’s head and attempting to interact with the target of their flirting using purely mental focus is not something new. There may be new terms for it, but the practice is old.
When the cheater mentally flirts, how far will they actually go? Will they also mentally seduce and undress their target as well? When they go from flirting or mentally broadcasting their flirts to mentally seducing, they are veering into dangerous territories associated with witchcraft.
The whole idea of changing people whether through seduction, or mental manipulation is an old familiar practice in witchcraft.Those involved in witchcraft know the power of the mental image along with how guided imagery can be used to ‘augment’ their influence.
It is not by chance that voodoo dolls are also an old technique that shares some similarities with mental flirting. What is the difference between acting out with a mental image (or avatar) and acting out with a voodoo doll representation? Not much, other than the voodoo doll is more tangible.
When they mentally flirt or as one person I know calls it, ‘going window shopping’, they are laying down mental tracks. The more the mental tracks they lay down in their head, the greater the power of the temptation when an actual lover arrives on the scene.
All those mental tracks get turned on and used against the cheaters will power. All that fantasizing, mental flirting, or window shopping comes is used against them. The power of those mental constructs can easily turn on them.
Calling the fantasizing visualization of flirting a new name does not make it safer. It may serve to bamboozle themselves or yourself, but they are playing with dangerous power. The power of focus and fantasy is not to be taken lightly.
Best Regards,
Jeff
