One of the regular pieces of ‘junk mail’ I receive are solicitations from wealth planners and investors. With regularity, they send out their flyers and make calls wanting me to place my investments with them.
From reading the flyers, each person tells me about their credentials and how good they are or how solid their company is. No matter how many times I tell them “I’m not interested“, they persistently continue sending their material to me.
i used PaperKarma and other apps in attempts at removing myself from their lists. I’ve even called them in my efforts in removing myself from their mailing lists. Somehow they keep finding me, even when I do my best at being invisible. As a last resort, I’ve learned how to recognize the envelopes and material so I can put it in the appropriate file on seeing them.
Unlike those wealth planners and investors, the calls for investment in health problems that come with affairs aren’t so easy to identify. Although you may not have considered an affair or dealing with an affair as an investment in health problems, it’s a reality.
Although the links between health problems and affairs are well established, few view them as ‘investments in health problems’. If you and the cheater started looking at the health price tag of affairs, you’d see things much differently.
The hidden forces soliciting health problems are just as persistent as the wealth planners. You may ignore the warnings, but it doesn’t remove the risk.
You can deny the link between health problems and the affair, but it doesn’t make it go away. You may even compartmentalize the two, thinking there’s no link between them.
The link is there whether you like it or not. The sleep problems, stomach problems, anxiety and your heart racing are linked to the affair. They aren’t separate items. Your health issues may be more related to the Affair, than to your age or diet.
If you saw the heart and stomach problems that the short term affair with the other woman at work would bring, it’ll help make better choices in dealing with it. Ignoring the problems and putting off dealing with the affair is a way of accelerating the development of health problems.
I even had one reader tell me about her loosing a tooth related to teeth grinding that came with her spouse’s affair. The stress of the affair wears down your health in many ways.
One place to start changing this is by dealing effectively with the affair crisis. In the video, ‘Getting Past the Affair Crisis’, you can find direction and guidance in handling the situation.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
