When conducting the Affair Recovery Survey, I delved into some hard-hitting topics that are often overlooked – suicide and homicide. Why? Because they matter. Lives are at stake. Affairs are not just about fun and games.
As a clinician, I’ve come across countless cases of couples dealing with affairs where suicidal or homicidal thoughts were prevalent. I knew it happened, but what I didn’t know was the frequency at which it occurred. I wanted to know just how often it happens.
Digging deeper, I found a chilling relationship between spousal violence and infidelity. And the connections to suicide? Stronger than I could have ever imagined.
The results of the survey left me stunned. Shockingly, suicidal and homicidal ideation were experienced by a significant portion of respondents. Many felt defensive or evasive when discussing these thoughts. I understand that these subjects are surrounded by discomfort and pain. But here’s the truth – if you’re caught in the grips of such thoughts related to an affair, you’re not alone. It’s a testament to the immense pain you’re enduring.
The survey revealed that roughly one-third of participants harbored these dark thoughts. And let me assure you, this pain is not temporary. It cuts deep, leaving a lasting and profound impact. It is not easy to turn off such thoughts or ignore them.
Contrary to what the media and movies portray, affairs are not harmless activities. They bring about unimaginable hurt and suffering. The myths perpetuated by the media only serve to mask the excruciating pain caused by adultery.
But here’s the reality: when the hurt runs this deep, you need serious help. That’s where “Overcoming Affair Trauma”, our powerful video, comes in. Discover effective strategies for moving forward, ending the torment once and for all. It doesn’t matter if the affair occurred years ago – this video holds the key to putting that pain behind you.
Let’s keep it real and face the truth together.
Jeff Murrah
