Archive for the sexual addiction
In dealing with the subject of surviving infidelity an issue needing attention is that of traumatic bonds. Traumatic bonding occurs when a person develops an attachment to people who are dangerous to themselves. Within an affair situation, traumatic bonding can occur between the infidel and their paramour or between the spouses. When such bonding occurs, […]
Wow! That was my reaction to this article in the student oriented press (Can Hillary Care Cure Infidelity?). The author John Lillpop poses the question of whether Hillary’s healthcare plans will include ways to deal with sexual addiction. Given that the Presidential candidate has had to struggle with a sexual addiction in her own home, […]
Talk about a shock. A husband in Warsaw, Poland decided to visit the local brothel, which was not a good move, but which led to more surprises. On his visit to the brothel, he discovered that his wife was among the ladies providing services. The incident led the couple to seek a divorce after 14 […]
A new book, Write It When I’m Gone: Remarkable Off-the-Record Conversations with Gerald R. Ford , deals with Gerald Ford and his concerns. Among them was that Bill Clinton needed help with his sex addiction problems. Gerald Ford was a man who had lived with a wife who suffered and addiction problem, so I am […]
Here is a story regarding a pastor in Alabama who died during some unusual sexual practices. The pastor, Rev. Gary Aldridge was found dead in his home. He had been hogtied and was wearing two wet suits. The congregation asked its members not to speculate on his demise. From the perspective of a counselor, such […]
Some of the information coming out from treatment research shows that money and success does not make one immune to affairs or sexual addictions. Among business leaders in treatment, for sexual addictions, 32% had businesses making over $100 million and 80% earned over 6 figures of income a year. Oddly enough, the CEO’s and business […]
Those of you reading may wonder, “What is an Anterior Cingulate?”. The anterior cingulate is a part of the brain. This area operates much like a gear shift when decisions are made. This area of the brain often craves novelty. With the new technologies of brain scans, the issues that people used to speculate about […]
A new autobiographic account is being released. The book, “Wall Street Wolf” by Jordan Belfort documents the life of an infidel and sexual addict. The account will show how the addiction spread to other areas of the main characters’ life, destroying his reputation, marriage and finances. Since it is based on a true story, there […]
When someone is having an affair, the acting out part is easy to determine. The resolute spouse can see and find evidence of that part of the affair. When there is no acting out, the spouse assumes all is fine and the problem is over. In some cases, this may be true.
In situations where there […]
There was an old song that described how for every up there is a down, and for every high there is a low. In relationships there are also these pairings. In relationships where there is a sex addict, there is the counter part known as the sexual co-addict. Although I have mentioned some about the […]
