Archive for August, 2007

Affairs, like other indiscretions are always found out. An old saying concerning secrets is that the only way to keep a secret is when the other person is dead. Affairs have a way of involving an ever increasing circle of those who know what is going on. In this news article, Man Sues Florist  Leroy […]

The shaky time after an affair is also a dangerous time. During that time, each partner’s feelings are on edge and there is a hyper attentiveness to even small details. During this time it is important to be careful about what you are seeking, or what you want from your spouse. If you say “I […]

In the movies, the lifestyle of someone who is a divorcee or involved in an affair is often portrayed as exciting or even glamorous. Movies such as “91/2 Weeks” create images that are very different than reality. In the movies the main characters always seem to resolve their crisis or issue within the two hour […]

I was astounded to discover one of the presidential candidates often wears a shirt that states “If abortions are outlawed, only outlaws will be able to screw around with my husband:. Being that this blog is about affairs, I will focus on the second portion of the saying”’”only outlaws with be able to screw around […]

Infidelity hurts. The pain infects a wide circle of people. On top of the original wound, there is the pain of being ignored, the pain of having to wait, the struggle of having to cope with the pain. It becomes layer on top of layer of painful and hurtful feelings. When going through such pain […]

I am considering implementing the Now Live program on the blog. It would allow the capability of a phone in broadcast on the internet. In the case of this blog, the topic would be that of affairs and dealing with them. In considering this decision, I wanted to find out if there is any interest […]

One of the strange phenomena I have encountered in dealing with infidelity is ’scripted affairs’. This is when there is an outside third party actively working to create an affair situation. The third party often stands to gain from an affair occurring. Such situations are challenging since there are problems occurring on two levels. On […]

In this incident in Vietnam, a wife severed her husbands penis while he was asleep.http://www.thenewsvault.com/cgi/news.pl?t=1106.
The emotions awakened by an affair can not always be controlled.  When people are aware of such  incidents they often think twice before having an affair.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
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