Archive for January, 2008
Although people often mention adultery, it is still surrounded with misconceptions. Hollywood and the porn movie world have made affairs look like something that is ‘ordinary’ and acceptable. They have presented it as an event that is part of everyday life. The reality is that it is filled with pain, fear, and rejection. It is […]
High tech hardware is no longer just something for James Bond movies and homeland security. These days both infidels and the resolute spouses are utilizing state of the art the art technology in dealing with affairs. Adulterers are using the technology to hide their actions while the spouses are using them to uncover what has […]
The Attorney General of Kansas, Paul Morrison has recently been found guilty of infidelity. Even his long time friend and Lt. Governor, Mark Parkinson did not know of his philandering. A person would figure that the person responsible for enforcing the laws in Kansas would know better than anyone else the wrong doing of his […]
The first business day after the holidays has jokingly been called “divorce day”. It seems that many couples decide to file for divorce after the Christmas holidays. The holidays are not only a time of celebrations, but they are also a high risk time for affairs. In this article out of Britain, the authors discuss […]
The Sheriff’s Department of Pinellas County in Florida began a policy in 2005 where they were no longer tolerant of adultery among their employees. Since deputies are supposed to set good examples, the department instituted a policy of discouraging adultery among its employees. The office not only talks tough, they enforce their policy. Recently, when […]
Following is a clip of well-known Chinese broadcaster Hu Ziwei. In the clip of events occurring at a high-profile Olympics press conference she accuses her husband of having an affair. Although the speech is in Chinese, the nonverbal content of her message shows the hurt and anguish that often accompany affairs. In this clip Ziwei […]
David Scott, a British citizen hid out for a while in the Philippines after being suspected of adultery. In the Philippines, adultery is considered a crime carrying a seven year prison sentence. Although his relationship with Cynthia Delfino began over the internet, when he went to the Philippines, he was surprised to find himself being […]
In one of the weirdest and gruesome crime sprees, Christopher McCuin stabbed the boyfriend/lover of his estranged wife. He had also reportedly killed and consumed his ex-girlfriend. This is an extreme case although when affairs occur, even when the spouses are estranged, there are potential dangers. When a divorce occurs, make sure things are settled […]
The military uses a term for damage inflicted unintentionally on those who happen to be in the combat area. The term, “collateral damage” is used in describing these effects. In dealing with affairs, there is also collateral damage. One group of people that suffer greatly as a result of collateral damage is the children. Affairs […]
In justifying an affair, the infidel is likely to come up with some wild rationalizations for what happened. Among some of the rationalizations I have heard are the excuses that deal with comparing Western civilization with the Japanese culture. Although some parts of Japanese culture makes room for relationships outside of marriage, the mindset or […]


